Gypsies don't wash their hair everyday either.

With the grace of God, coffee and hairspray I will make it through today. Hopefully.
 I went and saw a Cher concert.
Holy. Mutha. Of. FABULOUS! 
I wore gold sequin shorts and was in hag heaven.
I have had a somewhat busy two weeks. I hosted a wedding shower for a friend getting married THIS WEEKEND. I don't just "host" showers, I go all out. It was so sweet and cute.

 The campus I work at hosted a delegation of students from Denmark. The whole campus was worried these students would hate the small rural community college, but they loved it and our students! 
Between the shower, the concert, hosting these students, providing activities, juggling my personal commitments I was exhausted. Last Saturday I slept late like a teenage boy. It was glorious.
Here are a few pictures of what has been going on. I lost about 500 photos due to a phone malfunction. A sailor would have blushed.

The only place I could find to do some serious mascara application.

My mother is by far my favorite person on the planet. I love her to the moon and beyond!

GOLD. SEQUIN. SHORTS!
Mom and I bought these at an estate sale 5 years ago. Never in a million years did I think my butt would be in them. Thanks to my Aunt Jodie for hemming these. 

Sweet Treats at Bree's Shower! It was Alice in Wonderland themed. It was so cute! All the decor came out of my or my parent's house. We like stuff.

Delta Zeta's at Bree's Shower

Friday Night is Alright for... reading and doing a hair treatment. (insert sigh)

Word.

Q liked the Red Velvet Mini Cupcakes mom and I won at the pie action Saturday night!
My hometown of Red Oak is known for helping out the community members in so many different ways.
On this night, the local Masonic Lodge sponsored a Pie Auction to help a local kindergarten girl battling cancer. The town raised $16,000 to help with family traveling to treatments and medical expenses. This is just one of the reasons I love this town.

Caught Reed playing with his sister's Build A Bear and stroller. When he realized what I was doing he threw it down. 

Q decided she needed to help with the auction.
Mom and I bought a lemon pie we were sure she was holding flat against her chest. Quincee is hilarious.

Working on our "Bitch Face."

Yep.

Jamie Fink is one of my students and is constantly trying to argue with me about movies, music and pop culture. He said this is how I look when he makes a ridiculous comment about something and I respond with, "Get out of my office." 

 I am not sure if this was Monday or Tuesday. That is my life right now.
Top: Gap (I think)
Pants: Mom's hand me downs
Scarf Belt: Lilly Pulitzer
Wedges: Old and Gold
Watch: Toy Watch
Hair: Clean!

I just flat out didn't get around to taking a full length picture on Wednesday, April 9.
Dress: Lilly Pulitzer
Necklace: Marley Lilly
Hair: Dirty

Today, Thursday, April 10, 2014

I have a few meetings and events today on campus. I am going to Springdale, AR to watch my cousin Lane's home opener with the Northwest Arkansas Naturals! Hello Baseball Season. Oh, how I have missed you!

Dress: Banana Republic

Belt: Lilly Pulitzer

Shoes: Gianni Bini

Watch: Toy Watch

Hair: Very Dirty but curled and fabulous

One year down and a lifetime to go.

Many of the people in or around my life have noticed a major transformation in my physical appearance as well as my mental and emotional health over the past year. I would finally and officially like to let you in on a decision I made to better my health and life a little over a year ago.
Last January, my Aunt Shelley, my mother and I were sitting in the Red Oak gym watching homecoming. Of course our conversation turned to dieting and all of the recent trends. Who is doing what. How much they have lost...and on and on. It was at that moment my aunt turns to me and says, "Carly, have you ever thought about the band?"
It was that simple question that changed my life. 
Of course I had thought about the Lap Band. Anyone who is over weight or struggled with weight loss will tell you they have thought about every form of bariatric surgery. However, I always thought I could do it on my own. In my mind I was stronger and had the will power to conquer this battle. I was wrong.
Ever since I was a little girl, I have loved food. I am a foodie. There is nothing wrong with this until it is an addiction. Yes, I am and will always be addicted to food. Unlike drugs or alcohol addicts, people addicted to food can't actually live without our addiction. We all must eat to survive.
I thought about the question, "Have you thought about the band?" for about two weeks. Went back and forth on whether or not is was the best decision for me to make at this point in my life. Then a simple comment brought me to my knees. My grandfather made a comment to me one Sunday afternoon that made me feel like the ugliest, fattest, and most ridiculous person in the world. I still don't want to write or even remember (even though it is engraved in my memory) what he said, but it broke me.
I removed myself and just cried. I was mad at the world, mad at myself for looking this way and wanted to crawl into a hole and never come out. As I was drying my tears and trying to regain any composure I had left, my mom sat down beside me and said, "Let's look into the Band."
My mom and I had a very strained relationship. I would take my pain of being overweight out on her and because she is my mother she always let me take my frustration out on her. I feel so guilty now looking back on all of the fights and mean words I said to her. But she would do anything to make me happy and healthy. She and my father did just that.
On February 28, 2013, I drove to Tulsa to meet a dear family friend, Shannon. He was going to go with me to a seminar on the LapBand procedure. I was a nervous wreck sitting through the hour long seminar discussing the procedure, the cost, the lifestyle and the results. Shannon would write me notes and give feedback to what was being said. After it was over and we were walking to my car all I could think was, "Find a way. Make this change. Do it for you."
From that moment on it took only one month until my surgery. My mom and father's "anything" to give me a happy and healthy life was the LapBand procedure. On March 13th, I had an appointment with the surgeon, Dr. Ladd Atkins. My mom went with me. She was extremely nervous about the surgery. I wouldn't blame her. On March 18, I started a two week liquid diet to prepare myself for surgery. This is not only to shrink the stomach, but also to shrink the liver. I thought I would be in agony those two weeks, but with the help of chicken broth and Arby's au jus I made it. I even made it through the Easter Holiday without a Reese Egg!
On March 31st we celebrated Easter with my family before my mom, Aunt Kalyn and I drove to Tulsa for my surgery the next day. We made sure everything was in order for me to recover at my aunt and uncle's house. 
My surgery was scheduled for 7am and I had to be there at 6. I woke up, showered, dried my hair and was ready to go. This was the first day of the rest of my life. I could tell my mother was nervous on the short car ride to the hospital. I just sat in the back while she and my aunt nervously talked.  As soon as I was checked into the hospital I went to prep for surgery. Mom and my aunt came back to before I was taken into the operating room for last minute details and questions. Mom kissed me on the cheek and said, " I love you" and I was wheeled away. 
I really can't describe my emotions as I was wheeled into the operating room. I remember jumping onto the actually table and being ready to go. 
Waking up has never been my favorite thing to do and waking up out of anesthesia isn't any better. I slept a lot the day of surgery. 
Tuesday I traveled home with my mom. Wednesday I was back at work. 
My life is forever changed.

Some might think I took the easy way out. My doctor will tell you he did the easy part. I have had to change my entire lifestyle. Goodbye bread. Goodbye sushi rolls. Goodbye tortillas. Goodbye pop. I don't get cheat days. 
I can't begin to express my love and gratitude to all of those who have supported me through this journey. My family and friends have been more than wonderful. My relationship with my mom is one of the greatest blessings in my life. We spend so much time together and rarely argue. My surgery didn't just change my life, it also changed her life.
This is my new life and I couldn't be happier.
Thanks mom and dad. I love you more than words can express.
xoxo,
C

The picture on the left is from March 31, 2013, the day before surgery.
The picture on the right is me today, April 1, 2014, one year after surgery.
The dresses are both Lilly Pulitzer; however, the one of the left is an XL and
the one of the right is a medium. 

Small Town Life

Quincee and I driving in Red Oak. I think every single one of my family members has sat in someone's lap while they were driving. I come from a long line of law breakers. But it is Red Oak. 

My dear sweet friend and sorority sister, Bree, is getting married on April 12. I am a bride's maid and helped throw her bachelorette party in Fayetteville.

This is April (middle) and Sharry (right). These two are hilarious and I wouldn't trade them for the world!

We woke up after a night of unruly behavior to find it sleeting, snowing and raining outside. We threw everything in my car and got on the road. Sharry looks epic in this picture. The moment she was finished eating the cookie she passed ou

Practicing dogpiles! Future champions!

"If it isn't monogrammed, is it really yours?"

Who wouldn't want a pair of floral print oxfords?

Two of the most perfect things in the world: chick shaped Sweet Tarts and Egg shapped Resse's!

Love these little ladies!

Riding down Main Street of Red Oak on the tailgate of a truck. I love the small town life.

THE SHIVER SHACK IS BACK!!!

New hair color... kinda.

WINE NIGHT! My best girlfriend from high school came over and enjoyed a few bottles of wine and a few movies. 

Q just looks guilty in this picture. She said, "I want to do your hair." I checked her hands for scissors.

Small Town Saturday Night
I can't begin to tell you how many weekends of my childhood consisted of a bonfire at my parent's house. It was the best excuse for friends to get together, cook, and talk about life. My brother got everyone together for my dad's belated birthday. The tradition might be making a come back. 

 And then my Spring Break was over.
Monday, March 24, 2014
Shirt: Gap
Pants: no idea
Belt: Talbots
Shoes: Sperry Top

 Wednesday, March 26, 2014
Jacket: Gap
Jeans: Gap 1969
Shirt: Stated
Scarf: Fabulous
Shoes: Dollar General (YES! DOLLAR GENERAL!)

Thursday, March 27, 2014
We are expecting storms today. That was the perfect excuse to not wash my hair.
Hat: Vineyard Vines
Pullover: Marley Lilly
Jeans: Gap 1969
Shoes: Sperry

Glitter and Goldie Hawn's Lips

I am already on Spring Break. Well, mentally. It is only Thursday. But come Friday at noon(ish) I will be out of here. I will not apologize. Just another perk of working in higher education.

As of yesterday, I am down a whopping 85 pounds!

 Holy Ba-Jeezus!

It has been a journey but I am so glad I had the support of my family to make the decision to get healthy. I will give a full blown update around the beginning of April. 

This weekend I will be meeting up with sorority sisters and friends for what is sure to be an event to remember. My dear friend Bree is getting married April 12th and we are celebrating her bachlorette party! Fayetteville will be covered in glitter! 

So, here is what I have been up to the past couple of days. 

XX,

C

These are my minions! Our hometown of Red Oak was play in the girl's and boy's state basketball tournament. There is no place like RO. This small town supports the youth more than most would ever know.

The last time I was in Carl Albert High School's gym was my sophomore year of college. I had an allergic reaction to something (we never figured out what it was) and I looked like Goldie Hawn in the First Wives Club. It was horrible.

GJ and Q had one heck of a time. They love each other and play so well together!

GJ wanted a "Big Smile" picture. After he looked at it he said, "Send it to Buck!"

My Aunt KK hates when we make faces in pictures. This makes us do it even more:)

I forgot I was wearing red lipstick this day. I walked past a mirror and went WHOA! The earrings and necklace were a gift from manfriend.

Tuesday, March 11, 2014
Top: Old Navy
Pants: Lilly Pulitzer
Shoes: I have no idea
Watch: Toy Watch

I am over winter. If anyone would have said, "Why are you wearing white pants? The say it is too early for those." I would have kindly responded with, "I am an effing adult. I can wear whatever I want. And who is this "they" you speak of? What do they know?"
 If you can think for yourself and know what you like, you can wear whatever the hell you want. Rant. Over.

Remember that bachlorette party this weekend?
DICKSON STREET WILL BE COVERED IN GLITTER!

Thursday, March 13, 2014

Top: Pazza Bella Boutique

Cardigan: Stigler Boutique

Jeans: Seven

Shoes: Minnetonka

I ran around Tulsa yesterday in yoga capris, light blue pullover, Vinyard Vines ball cap and Nike AirMax shoes. It was a very good day!