Those who want to become married and have children are not wrong in wishing to do so; however, please do not tell me I am wrong for not wanting that life. Becoming a wife and mother has never been a goal of mine nor did I think it would complete me as a woman.
My mother, aunts, cousins and grandmothers are the greatest inspirations in my life. The selflessly provided for thier children. I can't begin to tell you how much I admire them.
With that, over the past few weeks I have had the opportunity to do a lot of soul searching. My life isn't what most think it should be. I am a 28-year-old woman. I am not married. I do not have children. Because of those things I do not have, I have been able to do so much more in my life.
I have a Master's Degree. I have traveled the world. I can go anywhere at the drop of a hat. I can have a car that can't fit a carseat. I can move. I can sleep in. I can wear white whenever I please. I don't have to find a babysitter. I can be the greatest aunt on the planet. I can have my weekends. I can save money. I can have only bottled water and mustard in my refrigerator. I can have cake for breakfast. I don't have to worry about if my husband will agree. I can be me.
I do not have to live a practical life.
I refuse to live a life society deems appropriate.
I refuse to conform to what people think
I should be as a 28-years-old woman.
I am Carly Jones
and no one can tell
me who I can be
except me.
Cheers,
C
Top: Pazza Bella
Skirt: wait for it... Dollar General!
Word. |
Top: Lilly Pulitzer
Seersucker Shorts: Crimuex
Wedges: Sperry Topsiders
Summer Time. |
First day of Summer and I spent it like any lady should at the ballpark! Hat: Marley Lilly Top: Lilly Pulitzer (National Wear Your Lilly Day) Margarita in hand. |
Got to cheer on this little lady in her t-ball game! |
Love this Kimono from Franchesca's! Sunglasses are from Target. Necklace is from Marely Lilly. |
Be as happy as a bird with a french fry. |
I am obviously invested in my name. This gold plated necklace has my Twitter handle @carlydjones on it. |
It is strawberry pie season! My bestie Jonea came out to help mom and I bake 10 of these. She walked away with one for her family and we got fresh veggies out of the deal. Fair Trade. |
The Fourth of July is one of my favorite times of the year. I get to see some of my favorite people, blowing things up, cookouts, Red Oak, swimming, firework shows, baseball, and the list goes on and on.
Today, June 30, 2014
Dress: Lilly Pulitzer
Sandals: Madden Girl
Necklace: My Great-Grandmother
Earrings: Marley Lilly
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